Narcissism is not self esteem

... it is a diagnosable personality disorder whose symptoms include an exaggerated sense of self-worth, feelings of superiority over other people, a sense of entitlement, a willingness to exploit others, and a lack of empathy. People with this disorder tend to prop up their egos with their own boasting and others’ adoration. But because that inflated self-image lacks internal support, it is fragile, like a reflection that dissolves with the pond’s disturbance, as in the Greek myth that gave narcissism its name. Underneath lies self-loathing. In the beginning you would endure, but it comes a point when you finally have had enough and you are truly sick of that person. Do you know of someone like that in your life? If you haven't met one, you are definitely very fortunate. :)

如果你真的美，别人一定会赞你。

如果你真的非常富有，一切都会理所当然。

如果你真的有才华，你应该会很忙吧？怎么会有时间讲那些有的没的呢？

其实你只是一个非常悲哀，脸皮厚成墙，演盖自卑的小人。

要该怎么帮你呢？